Say What You Mean and Say it with Love!

Reverend Ole was the pastor of the local Norwegian Lutheran Church, and Pastor Sven was the minister of the Swedish Covenant Church across the road. I saw them yesterday standing by the road, pounding a sign into the ground, that reads:'Da End iss Near! Turn Yourself Aroundt Now! Before It's Too Late!'

As a car sped past them, the driver leaned out his window and yelled, 'Leave us alone, you religious nuts!'

From the curve we heard screeching tires and a big splash...

Rev. Ole turns to Pastor Sven and asks, 'Do ya tink maybe da sign should yust say 'Bridge Out'?

I received this in an email and it made me lol . I thought it was good humor. But I had to laugh because I have been a part of conversations where the individuals are trying to say something and won't actually say it. They cloak what they are saying in religious language which often makes it more confusing. The truth is, in some of the cases, they use the "religious" language because they want to avoid taking ownership for what they were saying.

Ephesians 4:15 the Apostle Paul says, "...speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ." It is an act of courage to speak the truth. But it, when done well, truth helps us "grow up."

And the Bible is clear that "truthing" well is doing so with LOVE! Lets be honest, it seems that some "Christians" are better at speaking truth, but not so good at the love part. Others of us are good at the love portion and thin on the truth telling. The Bible says that we are to do both and if I add the teaching from Ephesian 4:29 to speak so that others are built up. Imagine if we took those three speaking guidelines to heart: truth, love, and building.

Be blessed! Your partner in the gospel,
Pastor Paul

One last thought: Just because something is true doesn't meant it has to be spoken. We all know that, right?